I have a friend who really does not crave chocolate. She rarely even thinks about it! Especially not when she is stressed, or depressed, or lonely, or unhappy, or excited, or celebrating. Upon rare occasions, she can be coaxed into trying a few bites of something chocolate if that something has a sterling reputation. Unlike the rest of the world that knows when you want chocolate it's ok to go for the M & M's if you don't have the gourmet chocolate in the house.